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1, in love with him more than 2 months, feeling good, like each other, and now faces a problem of women, men and women in the know also know his colleagues before the B, B with the female were dear colleagues know, my colleagues B not on the women interested in, not into! women not to offend his colleagues B, but did not become blind. Now with the men become women, they are my colleagues, my sister will tell you that my colleagues said B ill woman do not let him good with women? or laugh at men, such as br> blind date did not fancy, but met only one side, B are qualified to speak ill of you? cheap to be crap even if his mouth, but also say you? you are worried about the excess. If true towards your boyfriend B nonsense eight, and And you leave your boyfriend and therefore, it is not too bad, a people so easily affected by man, no backbone and lacks the ability to judge a man, not worth mentioning.
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2, exchanges 6 years, female go to graduate school for two years in different places, graduate school prior to the registration, no wedding. men do not care about most women, the two Tan Bulai, as anything can be noisy, would only say angry words, he has been useless patient, male points out that if the listener could not find such a woman. Women all aspects of education looks very good, others not good enough for men and women, men smoking, drinking, not aggressive, he was university teacher. Women know the basis of their own did not play well, tried to get men and treasure, a period of time not to contact, male anxious, like a change some time ago. women to graduate, but not for weddings and a child, his family is extremely poor, He gave his family income. no money and poor family, I do not care, as long as I am, self-motivated, able to fight with me to create the future. I do not have confidence, and he continued, tired, not at all happy together for life , nothing, and, over the years if I had not humility early points, but he was my first love, I do not have the heart, but also so many years. I'm afraid, is that divorced people break up, can not find good, and now it confusion, it helps me out of ideas.
Although obtaining a license but has no wedding, we view the private sector is not formally binding, you have to go after the licensing of foreign graduate school, and completely after the break next, the early as possible during the end of the history of the marriage.
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3, pay a boyfriend, love, has come to talk of marriage, the problem is the money he is quite heavy, and just graduated from wages is limited; I asked him a lot, I hope He followed my way to love me, I asked a very strong man, and my own development and childhood because of the problems left over, as long as we were arguing, I like drilling holes in the ground, they simply can not help to look at themselves to unlimited extension of this problem, such as schizophrenia-like, especially regret afterwards. And all the time to break up, say I want him to endure, I think it is because I am selfish. Dragon Boat Festival has kicked up because he could not accompany me, he let I took our oath, , and selfish, not tolerance, I want to change many times, each time related to apologize to him, he put up with me, but I really do not have confidence to get rid of.
condone the consequences of their own men to pull away. Do not worry He will not always tolerate you, as long as you do not converge do not suppress their temper and willfulness, he said, to give up on the day is not too late. you have to count down your feelings, and treat every day as the last day went, You will not just tortured him.
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4, your book out of an amount to buy, Zhenhen not you put forward a book signing in Shenzhen, the amount of on-site to find your signature. you that writing is too classic, too meet the current human. the amount of fish meal is your super-silk, ha ha. talk about my issues now, I hope the amount of fish out of ideas to help along sister. my boyfriend a good family, but his parents opposed , think we are too far separated the two, because his mother is also the foreigners, Chinese Lunar New Year's are no relatives, say that if he found a field, I do not know how lonely. This is the reason his parents opposed, in fact, the amount of Psychology does not want to marry the past, telling the truth is very hard Fujian woman over there, anything to do, places look good, their conditions are not bad, no worries about no good. because he played as a child, psychological always think their loss, and many times and her boyfriend, said points, he did not points. I think he did not want early psychological, so he did not love me wear to catch, the amount would now like to hand onto the end of the year, if he does not bear to break up, but feel loss, because now the money used in conjunction with a partner. If marriage is certainly a good, intelligent and motivated people, his family was good, the amount of thought he was a good choice. Excuse me, now ye go this way the amount of the fine in order to prevent too , no regrets?
since his deadline is the end of the last marriage, then at the end of it, if he then find reason to delay, let's not marrying, and also can save a big something. you are worried about marrying Fujian turned to his old maidservant, nor must ah, universality, there are still special, you are so smart, should not let their hard working, he was a man of slavery. What at first marriage are rushing to dry when you do, do not install equipment Almighty virtuous , show weakness to be good at stupid, forcing men hands-on, he can become a good husband five men had. Even if the final break up, they said no loss, after all, when they were together, voluntarism, you also have to enjoy the pleasure you have you have access, do not need to care about who's paying.
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5, single women 42, 48, he met online, there are times I was drunk and he sent me home in my home ML, surprise, I know is a matter of time. The next day he gave me, I do not know how to answer him, it's not embarrassing, but do not know the language. we made between the sweet little secret language, at first very short time he ML, and later he said I could not bear to endured no radio, slowly we can spend in bed twenty-three hours. his friends tried to persuade him not to play with fire, I feel this is the (very familiar with his friend and his wife), and later he and his wife the pair, I can see them very much in love, I quit this game. But we will still common, and that his friends have become my friends, men and women old and young, has become my life part. intersect more than two years, he is very stingy, sometimes for my money, but I can see the flowers and then he'll regret and heartache, is my heart felt sorry for his wife? he usually spends little money, his family basically do not have in his possession, he was a wife serve God out of this man I can not wait, so he does not control the marriage.
him now I have some resentment, as if I let him down, and I said he was not of life. I do not believe it. But I need these friends, I had a very self-closing, this is only my circle of friends, weddings and funerals of all contacts, but also harmonious coexistence. How do I maintain this circle of friends? this and how to keep his distance? also and his ML it? (I do mind him on my home. out of open room he could not bear to spend money)
according to men to His function has been fully developed by you, and now he only want to maintain family and love of your body, not only want to eat free meals afraid of getting himself into trouble, so no need to continue and his men had Niwai. You can tell him you are dissatisfied with their three identities, for his family stability, and to your dignity, you decided to completely leave him, that we will just friends, no amicable separation, good for everyone. whether he agreed not to agree with you Do not let him have on your home, and he even want to spend money to open your room to sleep, do not get to go home. we noble with some of their own, men will be high to see you. and even broke up with him, it will not loss of friends you want, as long as you do not take the initiative to withdraw from the circle of people who care about you and his dirty to force this point you quit?
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6, 26 females, with male broke up 8 months. we were very far apart, life is impossible to see. separation without any contact. Q few days ago, suddenly got a woman on the plus friend requests, it seems that men are now his girlfriend, she was deliberately introduced to my attention in the sharing of information intimate photographs of her and men. I remember the blog where this woman is a man's friends should know me from the information. this woman is not a demonstration to me, or warned me about. But I and the men had been, and no entanglement , it is necessary to do so? I am simple, by the feelings of the less, I do not know the world is not a lot of such women. I wonder if men know this. In short I think this woman a bitch's. shun sister, I should not ignore or retaliate?
Some women love nothing good, and some women are the IQ issue, taking it every man to wait for them to tell the world her man, and it plainly, this is level problems, not the level of such female talent thin. for such was Joseph mad, ignore have, pulled her into the black list, and she nothing to exchange.
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7, after the death of my husband alone with her daughter for many years, from 28 to 36-year-old .33-year-old self-sufficient living, we began looking for a man, wandering alone in the capital for, small circle of life, with the network, the two fall in love twice sad. is not a marriage with a history of child are they not able to love a woman have any fantasies? hate myself can not calm and always eager to emotional support, please Shun Shun dreamer awoke.
their support that they are the most likely. love this, there is enjoyment, not too do not fret, after all, all that is fate. married single woman with children is a difficult situation the country we so love to be careful again, less to do useful work, so as not to hurt themselves. principle is re-spotted investment, do not have a straw in front of Huang, also when he is pulling you across the river in the cable.
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8, how do you see such a man: love at the beginning every time he invested in good faith are quite warm and enjoy each other. But the process is always warm very short, sometimes no more than two months. As he began to find fault with getting to know each other, denying the other, looking for that other than their own people, broke up. (step two ships, but none of the things at the same time.) is his immaturity? still did not hit the right people? is not recognized by other people who have real, he would love to and married a long post?
you do not be that he is to be the one person he really recognized, or you will lose mess. the beginning of each have invested in love, that he plays into the fast heat faster, but he is not an emotional person specific and stable, sudden thermal quenching of people unsuitable to find Qingchi girl, and he was right and by Woman injured from the fall well. it means he is not responsible.
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9, 30 talented women, appreciated by unit leaders, from ordinary employees promoted to leading cadres, because the more contact with the working relationship and leadership (informal occasions, formal occasions there), the leading large female 10 years old, working ability, courage strategy. women and leadership enjoy each other, and ultimately derailed. women hate themselves, and even have the heart to commit suicide, fear of death also bring embarrassment to her husband and eventually drift along the world. The most frightening thing is that the leadership of the non-normal appointment (again), but still can not control is still there, the two are very happy, after the separation of women to regret the death, may still appear the next time. Women now feel in love with him, can not afford to leave this unit, how do?
side of the sea, while the flame, flesh unlimited attachment, to contravene the spirit of the ultimate instinct prevailed, you let yourself continue to fall. split personality where they are not willing to go, then as dignity. now ready: once to be found, is his ruin, bad language will towards you, then you may have to leave the unit. as long as nothing can accept the future, and now not even think about what what moral face.
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10, I talk with her boyfriend in July. Now the total quarrel. He has a heart attack, every He plays all my gas. do not know why I can not believe he has a little small to doubt him. every time get the upset, I say we should be fine to communicate about, he said communication is useless. yesterday, because I suspect that he a big fight. We live together, but did not have relations. He told me to go home. Today, I take things to leave, he said, why do you go ah. He tired to work every day. can I just could not help live in doubt him. Every time I have to apologize. even apologize, he does not believe that I will not happen again, and cis-cis, How can I make my boyfriend to trust it?
or home with it, since nobody sexual life, Gan Mafei have caused you to the outside world living with the fact that this is not his own pit it? and you always do not trust him, and he do not have confidence to you, the first separated for some time, take a look at the separation of two people can get along harmonious point.
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11, and her boyfriend talks and asked him to pay card to pay my marriage, I am responsible for the daily expenses at home. He reluctantly, but said I am willing to pay for the salary card. We are also not married, you can chat with friends and family, they said why did not he pay wages cards, not married sincerity. I think seems that, sooner or later have to pay, why pay to wait until marriage before? Is there for me reservations for himself also left a posterior? So, I talked to him, I said, he refused to pay my card, so I think he lacks the courage to love me, not for my own safety, I do not deep love. In fact, I do not care about his money, and I think he himself gave me every penny earned is the respect of my confidence in me, and I think that is heavy duty. Then he saw my heart, and the card to me, but I think he thought there still do not want to pay check to pay his wife. and he said if he had a daughter, let her husband pay the card to come.
his money he was holding no problem , anyway, the cost of living to the time of marriage, he is himself a good deal. you have to pay the card surface is to trust in him, the fact is to the jurisdiction of his men Zaneng willingly. but now finance most men to accept a wife, it is Because most men do not want to divorce, and most of the wife is than the man would have, the man put the money that a woman, he assured.
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12, My boyfriend and I love half a year, living together two weeks. now the old quarrel . because he started to work, and I every day at home. He would not communicate with me, and he said I always doubt him. how can I do it, I just wanted to before, how can we let him start with me nothing can talk to it?
to take advantage of the beginning of cohabitation, few people know the impact is small, and quickly separated. a little distance between men and women must have the beauty, the desire to have close.
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13, I was 22, now the government organs, and her boyfriend met in my junior year, he was four years older than me. Our very good relationship, but my parents do not agree that we are in his electrical work, my parents think he Which is that conditions are not very good, want me to find better conditions. but I really love him, and he loves me very happy as long as we happy together, and he also bought a house, not too bad economic conditions. because my parents do not agree, I had to lie to my parents that we have split up, I want to wait for him to come back next year, transferred from the grassroots to see my parents to let him see if you can agree. But I know my parents certainly would not agree, because Mom and Dad look very high.
he is monopoly, not low income, and there is room for you Ye Hao, supposedly as long as you like, your parents should not require more more. But you said you father and mother look high, which represents the girl they think they are worth, but unfortunately they do not know is that their daughter Bacheng small group of people earlier, and also stopped what blind. and so he transferred back next year, He often went to your house to offer sex with your father and mother for moving, not moving when you have to tell them to block too late, girl, if replaced, will be the people despise.
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14, female 26 her boyfriend, 28, love four years, I was her boyfriend's first love, just fall in love sweet loving. separated for two years due to work reasons, are compatible. I'm back home after work for family reasons, her boyfriend is concerned that long separated the feelings will fade, then requirements to my development. I'm not sure about the future and told him not to come for me, but only to the city where I can develop as a city of many of his one (he was not at home, work in different places), do not come . but he decided to resign here. live together for two years and found many contradictions. my mother against us, because of language barriers, and poor families, but this is not our main contradictions, most notably lax than others, not Mature, self-control ability, may be work related. compared with the nature of his work, usually when playing more often and colleagues back home customers to play late into the night. his poor health, and he clearly can not stay up, not smoke , drinking, but they can not control, and I both hardware and software, and even many noisy and did not let him changing for the better.
I can not stand the most is that every time he firmly corrected, a few days it again resume the habit. I feel so immature men can not be entrusted to life, breaking up several times failed to mention. He usually very nice to me, looks like love I firmly do not want points, also mentioned all day get married. In fact, I love him, but I think do not care of its own commitments and can not do and all day people, so I can not have confidence entrusted to him for life. want to shun a more powerful sister to the way to control him, I broke up a lot of pressure, because if he paid a lot of (as I came to this city), I get rid of him is cruel!
infatuation infatuation is enough, enough of sub-sub-cooked is cooked, you have emotional foundation, he came here for, and his direction is indeed a relationship between trouble their minds. could not bear to give up, do not give up very disappointed to let him down or let yourself down? you have to decide. In short the things you show a smooth often say > hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
15, I work the same office with his girlfriend, two are particularly narrow-minded and jealous people, love has been a year on average once a week to quarrel, light broke up more than 20 times there are small, such as SMS back to slow, and I joke with other female colleagues, and will lead to quarrel and break up, and now developed to fight abuse and hit anyone, of course, is her hit me, I can not beat her. quarrel like us enemy, and after a good and nice as a person, we were also agreed to generous tolerance, understanding each other, but who does not let anger or who. girlfriend wayward unreasonable, so angry, I tried to change her did not succeed, But I loved her, would like life to accompany her. She ignored me angry every time, or to mention breaking up. Will Soon her sister, a couple take a lifetime to stand a lifetime of love? We Is this normal? also Yes, always mention why she broke up angry every time it? really want points, or scare me?
I found that after each sex will forget all the unhappy, so angry every time she pulled me to her bed, When done she immediately forgot all the angry things, and love me like as before. The three or four days she was angry I did not coax her well, I then forced her to have sex, though we are friends again Well, now she can make until I forced her, she would never ignore me. how can I do, want to let her anger is not possible, the reason she was angry very broad, and sometimes six months ago suddenly remembered things to get angry, there is any way that an angry woman angry love better soon after you?
couple in bed together kick down the end of the bed, which is the private sector is highly sexual function, but also on you manifested. but every time someone trouble forced sexual intercourse with a complete way and well, this is not necessarily more work to do, because once the novelty between men and women did not, having sex becomes work, how can people are bothering you, you have to let people work overtime? so you have to think of other ways to He Hao. will we be able to admit she was mad at you, no matter right are wrong admit it? admit are not really wrong, admit it does not mean must be error correction, then the rivalry you doing with her? In addition, for this little girl quick to anger, kind of another way to cure her temper: she left her own initiative. Do not worry, leave your front foot, rear foot to expel her to the.
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16, now on the research, graduate next year, 27 years old, had never been in love. is a specialist on the former, to further education, no serious thought about the matter. from a university to now are a person, family, anxious, their heart is not urgent, but also not suitable, the most concerned about is the future. Recently feeling lonely, empty heart, is not to be found? but always believed in fate, so such. right? < br> 27 years old, if not rush to get married, they should experience the taste of the next Love Han. love object, or good looking, but then if you woman, you have to love not just sex, or sexual impulses will destroy your sense of , harm your heat to inappropriate men are reluctant to part, resulting in uncoordinated marriage, exterminate your rest of your life happy.
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17, female 23 just for one year. stand up to colleagues offensive, the fall . he was big I was ten, single good word of mouth is good, quite well. He had a six-knot woman, women at home do not agree unsuccessful. In Lijiang, we drunk, ambiguous stimuli, the first ML, seems to seduce me He, who is non-Liuxia Hui, memory is no good feeling, only pain and Manchuang the blurred light. then two more, I was too cheap? does not recognize. sure would have liked him since that night, rather than a night like him. determine the relationship between mind and more after the women are all colleagues, low probability of success, simply underground conditions, and both good. male and the female is good indeed, perhaps all this courtship period. After the men feel not the future, female parents do not agree to the female said: I have not love, the supremacy of the age. woman then found the so-called first man to a woman you'd rather die like this.
fell in love with one person as a rival in love , never show weakness in front of the opponent. Members should meet every day, and found his mouth will rise, turn around, clouded. from the heart of the love that short-ming may be cheated out of everybody's eyes a youth. but I do not want to believe, well-being knew, when he said he loved you, do love you, but it was not love. Since they are from, why not keep good memories. has come out slowly, but vague memories of a huge, how to face this feeling The sensual ingredients do?
forget, are forgotten. even if temporarily forget, you have to tell yourself: he just stopped my life in a shadow of a chance. For once the flesh, not to repent, and be done , and right now when the cost of the necessary growth.
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18, you made me understand many things, but also made me stay away from the ranks of Jour, from a loving son, loving husband, loving family is better than all the others , can be neither haughty nor humble into a very calm and relaxed manner to deal with problems derailed her husband who also made me change back from Huanglian Po beautiful and elegant and noble woman, all this is your credit! deeply thank you! out After suffering the abyss look back the past, the Department is still unclear to you for advice: for the spirit of man flesh derailment, we can really turn a blind eye, take it lightly; but men tend to derail the common property of both spouses will more or less to give III, in which case how should we deal with it? AA in fact very difficult to do, after all, this is the couple's, already you have me I have you; not AA it, for a less well-off home, there may be light this man lost, even if the home can not withstand a relatively wealthy man toss ah. What a man can move only one derailment, let money follow the derailment? (if outside the primary three to man people love to love and lose people's man, it is the wish for friends)
in our mind and body can not take control when a man, do not consider his half of the money we also have ethics problems. because of his money, said White the or his, if you divorce, after divorce, even a penny of his money, you can not see it? three men to spend money even on the outside, but also limited few, most men can distinguish the inside and outside China, and they dream want to sleep rather than spend money on white women. so you can rest assured, but also should spend a little money to buy his favor with the behavior of other women, as are his clothes, cosmetics, jewelry costs: Do you have this one takes, then they can not have you?
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19, I know 4 years with her boyfriend, love, more than six months, the two academic work looks match. feeling good to be married. my family economic situation in Beijing, medium, small town his parents are civil servants, He also has a brother get married this year. His parents said the two men raising a graduate student is not easy, at home no money, I can understand. now it is her boyfriend civil servants have the opportunity to buy a cheaper house, but now no room, only the units to the single apartment (30 square), no car, no more deposits, when his parents brought only sister in a piece of jewelry and some gifts, not to mention manners. my family had to bring me the marriage room, the parents have to give me 10 million dowry. I fell in love with her boyfriend of others feel good, motivated, career is also promising, not just for the sake of money, can two people get married, no house, no car could not groom gifts mm this makes me feel married very frustrated, and lose if, as my parents live frugally working-class support and I Burongyia. along, how can I adjust the attitude, or how not to hurt the feelings of his family circumstances make it appropriate that about?
people are prepared to let his son married into your home, so do not consider his son pays for. and the marriage room has been provided your home, and gave 10 million dowry, his family how parents feel that you do not want money, and have the ability to the more, no they do not have the ability to, ah. no way, you saw is that people, his family can not afford or do not want to give, are you voluntarism with him the results obtained, so do not face too many issues to consider. you have to understand: a dime that he did not marry you, his life would not want to fork out your family before the cattle. Where men do not cross cattle marriage, women are put Songshu Tan's This was his money, his family does not give the benefits of sponsorship.
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20, my husband and I love many years married for two years, there was a sixteen-month-old baby. from now we both love, He is a soldier. wedding, I and his parents at the unpleasant: his father went into my diary and told him I wrote the content; because they came to my house, I did not call his father, his parents let me apologize, but I did not; I refused his sister lived in our new requirements. but we are still married, get married, I live with my parents. Now the problem is his parents and his younger brother's wife and even his relatives said, I do not warm to them, they can not accept He therefore wants to divorce me, unless I change their attitude. He said he chose to be a good son, I'm sorry. I was losing, but I can not be reconciled, I admit, no one, I did not call his father; for him sister and his relatives that I did not warm or aloof, I am very angry, more angry is that he did not help me a little bit of talking, his family said, what I am what I am wrong. now I'm a man with children, his family did not help me , also did not say look at children; marriage ceremony did not give me a point of money, while his sister had married first.
I never let him choose one of two problems. Is to allow his family in He said before I'm bad, I can not nag his parents is not good? I do not like too much, his family, like the stir, confinement, he was a brother in our room to eat, and I did not say anything, I did not allow his mother to help me with children, his mother did not let me do this and that, it was not his mom, I end up cold, and he told her sister that I ignored. I and his family do not live together, no common language, and his family can not go to talk. I want to ask is, I do something wrong in the end, he do this to me? I still have expectations of happiness? Now I'm at home with children.
and the husband's family relations are not good, it must influence their emotions, he protect his family, of course you become the bad guys in his eyes. In fact, the root of the problem is that you should not look for people who find the two big differences between the family environment, of course not get along with, of course, alternate rift. The result is that you are not with each other in urine. you do not no big deal people of urine, urinary You're not a good thing people do not, because you are married, a parent, children of divorce how to do so? course, as long as you are willing to children were left to his family, and you win in his home, and unfortunately you can not do, so you can continue to wronged themselves. no way, this is the characteristics of the Chinese Marriage: families can affect the couple relationship.
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21, my son is 4 years old, the total sleep apnea, the nose is also a sense of the nose, especially love of a cold. The doctor said he adenoids and tonsils are large and require surgical excision. I used to watch along Bo, know your children to do exactly had this surgery, I would like to know what is done after the adverse reaction? exactly how old do that? Now she often cold? surgery requiring general anesthesia, I am very worried, but if the doctor said not to affect development. If Children do not need to have rhinitis, tonsillitis, coughs, by this time also the value of the crime.
exactly did it last spring, 6 years old, was blocking them, they can not sleep properly, and can only cut. cut After the nose is all right, sleep do not hold your breath, and not snoring, but still cold and cough, because the flat ...
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